Get Your Guy Back Review – My Honest Opinion

Posted by on August 30, 2011 163 comments

Thanks for visiting my website. If you are looking for a review of John Alexander’s guide “Get Your Guy Back”, you have come to the right place.

I would like to clarify that I will be giving you an honest and unbiased review of this guide. I purchased the product and evaluated it and now I will be presenting to you important details that you need to know before you buy this guide.

Note: This is a review of the guide.

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What really is this guide Get Your Guy Back?

Get Your Guy Back is a step-by-step guide with recommendations/advices of what to do to get your ex back and it goes beyond that point since it teaches how to keep your man.

The course consists of 4 sections:

Section 1 – System Introduction and First Step

Section2 – Myths, mistakes, successes and break ups in relationships

Section 3 – “The Keys for the New You”

Section 4 – The process of reconnection

Also it includes a bonus, which consists of responses to the 10 questions most frequently asked by women, after reading the guide.

Perhaps the first question we may ask is who is the author? Why should I believe him? The truth is that I was interested in reviewing this guide not only because of the subject but also because of the author. I had recently evaluated one of his guides: “The Secret to Getting Her Back”. Even though that is a guide focused in men, after reading it, I found the reason why I had lost interest in my previous relationships and, not only that, I found out why I am actually so happy with my husband. Based on this previous experience, I decided to review this other guide: Get Your Guy Back.

In this guide, John not only gives recommendations but also explains how to implement them, the reason why he is giving that advice, and what has been his personal experience.

It tells you what to do, what not to do, when, how to contact your ex, and when not to contact him.

I also found that his recommendations are easy to understand and follow because in many cases he gives specific examples of what to say or what to do. In this guide, there is one section that talks about the common mistakes women make after a breakup.

In general, this guide shows you which steps to take to get back your lost love but what I most liked is all the things you can accomplish that at the end are equally or more important than the end result of getting back your partner . It takes you from what it could have gone wrong in your relationship, the mistakes you can actually be making, things that keep a man interested in a relationship, and how to become the best person you can be,  and the process of reconnecting with your ex regaining his confidence.

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What are the negative aspects of “Get Your Guy Back”?

As with any other product, book or guide, Get Your Guy Back is not a perfect guide and I include one of the flaws I found:

The last part of this guide is the reconnection process which is actually how to attract your man back to you. This section contains psychological strategies that I understand some people may have ethical problems with because these “strategies” are actually psychological manipulations that the author recommends with the purpose of getting your ex back. On the other hand, I have to recognize that these are sound strategies for achieving this attraction.

And what are the positive aspects of “Get Your Guy Back”?

It is an easy to follow guide that details step by step what to do and in many cases, it even tells you what to say to your ex in specific situations.

Teaches you how men think and what they mean when they give answers that may seem unclear.

The author tells you one by one what are the mistakes you should not make in a relationship and after a break up. This is why I think this guide can be useful, not only to get back your lost love, but also to keep him by your side because at the end,  there is no use of getting your lost love back if you do not know how to keep him on your side forever.

This guide is written in a simple language and the writing style is very entertaining.

In general, what I think of this guide?

I can tell you that after reading this guide, I now realize that I did many things opposite to what is recommended here when my first husband and I broke up long time ago. At that time although I wanted to attract him, what I really did was the opposite and now after reading Get Your Guy Back, I understand why. I would recommend this guide not only to women who want to get back their ex but also for women who are happy in their current relationship, like me, because it also teaches you how to keep your man at your side forever.

Today, thank God, I am happily married but after reading this guide, I found that I was making the errors # 2, # 7 and # 8 in my actual relationship. Therefore, I decided to change that type of behavior and I have to say that I had a very positive response from my husband. This is why I recommend this guide also for women who are with their man and even for those who are alone because it teaches you how to become the best person you can be and when that happens you definitely start attracting men into your life.

I hope my review has truly helped you,

Madeline

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How to make your man addicted to you? Secrets revealed by John Alexander

Posted by on August 19, 2011 12 comments

Sexual instinct drives men by nature. This is not new and you should not be surprised. Therefore, if sex is so important to a man, what can we do to maintain the man we love by our side and not let him even think about being with another woman? Here are some of the secrets revealed by John Alexander in his guide Get Your Guy Back:

1. Be confident about your body. Why is this important? If you do not feel confident and beautiful, you will show that lack of confidence to your man when trying to seduce him. If you are not satisfied with your body then do what you have to do to feel better about it. In this guide written by John, he dedicates a section to help you in this regard.

2. Assume that your man thinks you are beautiful. If your man did not think you look good he would never have invited you out in the first place. He invited you because there was a physical attraction. Also assuming that your man thinks you are beautiful helps you relax and feel comfortable in your own skin.

John speaks of another secret that is very explicit and that’s why I didn’t include it in this section but what he mentions sounds very logical. After reading this guide, I decided to put it into practice and I have to say that I’ve done extremely well with my husband.

 

 

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The 9 Mistakes That Can Kill a Relationship and Tips to Get Back Your Ex revealed by expert Get Your Guy Back John Alexander

Posted by on August 19, 2011 311 comments

At the beginning of a relationship, everything seems great, we show our best side; never get angry because we have a lot of patience, almost without any effort. As we move forward in the relationship, we feel increasingly confident and relaxed and then we begin to show little by little our true self: we have patience but it is limited and we say what we feel without choosing our words. This is when we can begin to make some of the following mistakes:

Mistake # 1: Not giving support -  you may not realize we are the emotional support of a man. He may have many friends and even go out with them but when he has problems and issues of concern, these friends can try to comfort him but they will not know how to give the emotional support you can provide. Therefore, when you see him depressed or worried let him know how important he is for you and let him feel you are, above all, his NUMBER 1 fan. When he feels that, he can go out and conquer the world because he really feels he has everything to do it.

Mistake # 2: Excessive nagging – Your man does not need you to act as if you were his mother. What he needs is your support and to feel that you appreciate what he does for you. If you two are not together and you want to regain his trust, you should avoid making this mistake when you talk to him again.

Mistake # 3: Refusing to have sex – this does not mean you have to have sex whenever he wants but if you keep him happy in this regard you will be rewarded.

Mistake # 4: Need him too much – John speaks of this as one of the worst mistakes you can make because it can quickly kill the relationship. A person who lacks confidence in herself can end up acting like a needy person and complaining too much. If your man sees you like this at the end, he will get away from you. So think that you want him but do not need him. Act with confidence in yourself. Remember that only the person who trusts in herself can really overcome a break up and regain and / or maintain the trust of her partner.

Mistake # 5: Immaturity – A sign of immaturity is not respecting your man. Ask yourself, did he leave because you were looking into his stuff? Doing this means that you do not respect him as an adult. He needs the opposite: to feel that you trust him, to see that you are always positive and happy. In this way, he will feel always attracted to you.

Mistake # 6: That you do not care enough – A state of balance is important in many things in life and a relationship is no exception to this. You must show your man that you care about him but at the same time, you should not go as far as to need him too much. This may be a little difficult to understand at the beginning but if you are confident in yourself, you can achieve this balance more easily in your relationship.

Mistake # 7: Dominate – This is a mistake we can make after the first stage in a relationship because we feel relaxed and confident. This is a mistake that can definitely kill a relationship. Both partners can be pushed away from the relationship: the woman who wants to dominate and/or the man who does not feel comfortable feeling that his partner wants to take over. Why I say this? Because I experienced it myself in some of my previous relationships. When a woman begins to dominate her partner and gets what she thinks she wants, at the end she doesn’t feel really happy and satisfied with that man because she ends up making all the decisions and taking care of so many things that she ends asking herself: “Why I’m feeling so dissatisfied?”, “Why do I have a man? I feel like I am alone“. On the other hand, your man can end up getting away from you because he feels he cannot be your protector as it is obvious you do not need one. So if you really want to maintain your relationship or get your guy back never undermine his image as protector. Do the opposite, raise his ego from time to time with things as simple as letting him decide where you both are going to go for dinner, what you will do this weekend, etc.

Mistake # 8: Anger – In this section John talks specifically about the anger and gives recommendations on what to do in different situations. It is not that you cannot get angry from time to time because of a valid reason and talk about what happened calmly.  The problem is when anger becomes your default behavior, meaning that, usually you react to what other people say and what happens around you with anger. Anger is when you lose control of your emotions and you start crying and yelling like a baby brat. Most men will tell you they are happy if their wives are happy. My husband is one of them. So next time you feel you are going to get really angry, change your thinking, take a deep breath and think twice before you start screaming because in the end if you keep reacting that way you will only get your partner to walk away from you. I speak from experience.

Mistake # 9: Saying “I love you” too soon – In this part John recommends to never say “I love you” if you are not completely sure that he will truly respond the same way.  When one says, “I Love You “there is some kind of commitment in those words, and if your man does not feel ready for that commitment he will gradually move away from you.

 

 

A useful article on common mistakes women make after a breakup, inspired in John Alexander’s guide “Get Your Guy Back”

Posted by on August 19, 2011 18 comments

My intention was to review the guide written by John Alexander “Get Your Guy Back.” After reading the guide, I found several interesting points. There are relevant differences in the strategies used by men and women when trying to get their ex back. As a woman, I know that when a relationship ends we can feel a great emotional emptiness and therefore, act as if we do not care about anything in our life. Due to this and some other reasons, we can end making one or more of the following mistakes after a breakup.

Among these mistakes is sleeping with your ex during the break up. This is an example where if it were your guy who was trying to get you back it would be a good strategy because a woman cannot help having feelings towards a man if she makes love with him. However, it is a mistake when you are the one trying to get him back. Why? The answer is simple: for him this would be a pleasant experience without the commitment of being in a relationship. It would not necessarily mean he has feelings for you. This is the reason why you should avoid having sex with your ex until he actually deserves it.

The second mistake is sleeping with other men as this will only further complicate things between you and your ex and this is something you need to avoid. The third mistake is to get involved in what John calls a rebound relationship. This is when a woman gets involved in a relationship with another man because she wants her ex to get jealous. Why this is a mistake? Because your ex may think that everything has ended between you and him since you are with another man. Mistake # 4 is to have no patience. At the beginning of a breakup, we have mixed feelings toward our ex. Sometimes we see him as the best man we had or that we will have in the future and sometimes, we see him as the worst of all. We feel love, sometimes we feel hate and despair and we have doubts. That’s why we call him repeatedly either because we need an explanation of what happened or because of some other reason. We try to have a normal conversation but soon something happens that reminds us of something painful and we start arguing again. It’s like a never-ending story…. For these reasons, you must stop all contact with your ex until you are truly prepared to face him again.

Mistake # 5 is to use your words against you. This is when you say to yourself the words NO or I WIL TRY. What happens when we repeat again and again that we cannot do something or that we are going to try? When we say NO, our mind is covered with negative thoughts and even when we say “I WIL TRY”, this is the same thing as saying “I will try but if for some reason it doesn’t work, what can I do?” This doesn’t help you because your mind instead of being focused on what you’ll achieve, is really full of negative thoughts and at the end you are not going to get what you want.

Finally, John talks about when you punish yourself because you didn’t overcome it. What does this mean? It means that we feel guilty because we still have feelings for our ex.

However, we should not feel bad about that because this is actually very normal. What we should do is to focus our attention on becoming the best person we can, eliminating the emotional dependency, and therefore becoming a more independent person.